There is a saying that “Think good and good follows, think evil and evil follows.”There is a way how our mind works and the most interesting thing about that is it works only the way we train it, we usually think that our mind works according to the situations effortlessly on it’s own, but that thinking is totally wrong, if you think that you’ve been in a dilemma for years.
Our brain accepts all the thoughts we have and the kind of atmosphere we live in. There are three types of people in this world one who has more of positivity, one who has more of negativity and the one who tries to balance both.
What is it likely to be positive? It’s just that when you’re getting rejected or having failures in your life at that point you have to be positive, you should be bold enough to face rejections and failures.
For instance Sudha murthy, founder of infosys, Jack ma, founder of ali baba, Steve jobs, founder of apple. These examples show us that no matter what you are you should know how to build a bridge between what you are and what you can be.
Yes, there is a fact that too much of positivity can be hinderous so even if you are falling way too down you will ignore it and instead of finding a solution you will be thinking that it’s okay. Now what is it likely to be negative? Negativity is a bad emotion to any of us and besides if you’re too negative you won’t be seeing various opportunities given to you thinking that you may fail or you’re not good enough for it.
Negativity is inbuilt somewhere in every human but we should know how to avoid it as there is a saying – “Never finish a negative statement, reverse it and you will see wonders happening in your life.”
Don’t let others take the decision of your life, you have the power to choose between positive and negative in different situations and so “Choose your thoughts, and create your destiny.”
When life gives you opportunity you should accept it without fearing about failure or rejections. You should never think that if you are not able to achieve something, you’re not good enough, because sometimes life brings you a few steps back as there is something big waiting for you.
This is a bow and arrow concept, but some people take this to a higher level of negativity which in turn makes you think that life is not fair with.
No one is perfect in this world, just try and hustle for what you want or maybe choose a person who can guide you to that path so that it’s easier for you to accomplish your goals. So try to do something you love and don’t think anything negative. These simple things can make your life easy and better.
There are a lot of questions in people’s mind that how am I suppose to keep a balance between both of them? These questions are to be answered by yourself, at first it may be hard for you to choose because your mind is trained and it takes atleast 21 days to bring any kind of change, so try and experiment, the more you do it the more results you will see.
If you are not able to accept any kind of situation close your eyes and take 3 deep breaths think about what you can do and act accordingly because taking any kind of decision with a wavering mind will not be fruitful.
“Never let the fear of striking out keep you from playing the game”because life is just like a game, it gives you the results depending on how you play it.