“We cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used when we created them.”- Albert Einstein.
Do we think about our problems? Where do they come from? The problems come from where we start to create them, for example when our parents scold us or stop us from doing something we create a mindset that “Life is not fair with me.”
Why are we supposed to consider things from one comment or sentence that we are not good enough? Our life is an adventure and we are going to meet all sorts of people in this whole journey, some may motivate you, some may take you down but only you can decide what you should intake.
The problems we consider aren’t even real problems, the problems we think about are just tiny imaginations created in our mind, thinking that nothing is going right or life is not fair with you because someone else told you something and that is not the real problem.
Maybe you are not aware that you’re life is not a bed of roses and if you think that you must also know that even roses have thorns inbuilt in them, we may have problems which are as big as a tsunami but then you should also try from your side to solve the problem and just not sit and continuously crib about your life, remember that you cannot clap with a single hand because a clap with a single hand is slap given to you by life in various ways to teach you lessons.
The real problems are way beyond our thinking capacity, the problems where you blame life or others for your mistake is not a life, it’s just the way to take out your anger or irritation and satisfying yourself by telling that it was not your mistake.
Real problem begins when you consider yourself as a useless person, where we criticize ourselves instead of getting up and trying to get another solution for the problem.
“You have been criticizing yourself for years, and it hasn’t worked. Try approving of yourself and see what happens.”- Louise L. Hay. This author is a great women and she beautifully explains about these problems in her book “YOU CAN HEAL YOUR LIFE.”
She tells that how we create problems in our mind and instead of finding solutions we criticize ourselves for doing something which went wrong in our life. Self criticizing is a way where we kill our capabilities to conquer something in the world, we all are meant for something and killing that because you failed in one work is like dying without actually dying.
You can be the one who you are supposed to be, we shouldn’t be thinking that something else will come and turn your life from hell to hevean. We know that somewhere in our life we are going to fail but thinking that as the end of your life is foolishness.
Lastly I would like to give you a small piece of advice- “Not everyone is a genius, not everyone is an artist but the day you know what to do after you fail you will be the person who won in your entire life.”
This was written by me when I was going through something like that even I thought that I was a useless person but after you realize that you’ve been wasting your time, you will create a history on your own so don’t give up on yourself.